Harvey Vera

Date yourself before you date. Marry yourself before you get married. There's this freedom you have when you are single. Date yourself, love yourself and everything will fall into place. You will never be able to date long or have a sound relationship if you haven't dated yourself.many people would say, " I've been praying for a partner but it seems God just doesn't want to give me a partner" but the question is, how can you manage someone when you've fully not managed yourself, who do you want to suffer? Its just like rushing into marriage when you haven't known your partner much yet. Date yourself, work hard even while studying , give yourself a nice treat, buy clothes for yourself, make your skin glow, and when you get into a relationship you feel very okay, no much complains. You won't complain of a guy not changing your wardrobe, giving you money, because these are the things we learn to do while dating yourself. Marry yours

NONSENSE    People say in every nonsense there is a sense but from my own view,   the more you listen to nonsense,   sit,  dine and talk with people that talk nonsense,  you would only realize one thing,  when you leave their presence,  you copy their nonsense,  you see yourself saying and doing the things they do.  Now,  what is nonsense?  Nonsense  is that that sense  of sitting and doing irrelevant things,  saying things no one can benefit from. Its a sense with no formula of maturity applied. Its that sense of hanging out with those categories of people whom you know will drain you and will never contribute a quota to your  sense of reasoning.  Its that sense of thinking below your normal status. Its a sense that makes you fight and argue unnecessary for something that is no issue. Nonsense is that which u say that makes your friends  laugh with you and the world laugh at you because it makes no sense,  your friends will laugh with you because you are bundle of individuals  who sp

    There's one common attitude I've noticed amongst  most ladies. They call that guy that can't afford to give them the kind of life they want names.  They tag them as "stingy",  "stupid",  "cant spend".  Don't be quick to judge, wait and keep watching.  You might have known a guy for a few months but the truth is you still haven't known him much yet. Most girls throw abusive words at a guy who can't afford the kind of life that's in their dream world.  If yo parents can't afford that kind of  life,  if you can't afford it then why abuse an innocent guy if he can't afford that kind of life in your dream world. Don't  underestimate  a guy if he can't afford that life.  I don't concur  to disguising but that is where most guys derive pleasure. A guy might leave you for another girl after tolerating your insults and you find out he's now wealthy all of a sudden. He didn't become wealthy all of a su

      "LIFE" has no definition, because words can't describe it nor explain it. Mathematicians can't solve it because they don't know the formula. I define "LIFE" as,  what we want it to be. Life is reality. Reality can be define as how we want it to be. Only if we could see our future, we would amend our present and learn from our past.  One of the most popular proverb says,  " you learn from your mistake". I've  come to realize that not everyone learn from their mistake. If you don't decide,  if you don't have a decision board.  You will keep on making same mistakes ad-infinitum. Experiences teach but it doesn't teach all,  It teaches only the mind that has taken a decision. Life is reality ,  you can't dream it nor imagine it,  you live it. You don't live  it the way it present itself before you,  you live it just the way you  want it, f though not fully,  because of life realities. You can't escape life, unless d