Abusive relationships is not one that should be entertained or tolerated, everyone is priceless, limiting yourself to several relationships entertaining abuses from this guy and that girl is senseless. A child who grew up in a home where the mother ir father is a victim of an abusive relationship feels that it’s the best, no other way to be loved and they entertain abusive relationships because they now feel it is normal. Most of these people are not comfortable in non abusive relationship because it seems strange to them and can't keep up with it. Not only a relationship you receive constant beatings and insult is abusive, there are other ATTRIBUTES of abusive relationship we are a novice to and we see it as Normal. ATTRIBUTES OF AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP * CONTROLLING BEHAVIOR. DO Not ever engage in a relationship where your partner is excessively controlling, they expect you to do everything they ask, they ask, they don't care about your opinion,