Harvey Vera

        Studying at night is of a great importance to our health and emotions. Note, studying not reading,  they are two different words.     Studying means to fix the mind closely  upon a subjects ; to dwell upon anything in thought; to muse ; to ponder. To endeavour  diligently ; to be zealous.     When you return from work take up a book,  story book,  newspaper, magazines.....anything that could literally steal your attention from the present world. Most times its best one exercise the mind or our thoughts from work,  family,   life,  into some other story world even for a few minute, our thought Is worth it. Placing your thinking on the usual or continual thinking or life routine would do you no good. It won't make you beyond your normal thinking, it would only help in decreasing  your ideas. And you think you are successful living an ordinary life.  Don't  live an ordinary life,  live an extraordinary life. How can you do that,  even if you're always busy, studying

      Relationship according to Rev. Respect karo is "Two people running a relay race into a ship".     I have noticed that in so many relationships there is no fun aside having sex. Relationship is not just meant for sex alone but for fun and intimacy. Relationship is a quick access to intimacy.It could be a friendship relationship which consist of : The casual friendship relationship and the intensional friendship relationship which might graduate into courtship relationship  and then to marriage relationship. Relationship helps you to know more about your partner, but most people think relationship is majorly on sex. She satisfies my sexual huge, he satisfies my sexual huge,  am enjoying the relationship. I heard someone say ' the easiest and cheapest way to have free sex is to get into a relationship. They would say "have someone whom you could literally get sex from randomly and wouldn't request for money,  its that cheap".   What a mindset!  They n

      For no cogent reasons you have been jilted by the one who has promised to love you forever. You just realize that the guy that has promised to walk you down the matrimonial aisle has turned to be a player and a heartbreaker. You have been used,shortchanged and dumped by the love of your life.     If i tell you that it doesn't hurt i am lying to you. Consider me a big liar if i tell you you wont be destabilize after this severe heartbreak.    The truth is, it hurts, it drains your strength completely. No word in human speech can possibly describe how pained you will be. But its okay... Its okay to soak you pillow in tears. While its okay to feel pains, its NOT okay to stalk him, it's not okay to monitor his life in the internet, it is NOT okay to fight for a place in his heart, it's NOT okay to keep calling or texting him. Calling for closure won't even help it will only increase the pains. This is the time to close every door connecting to him. _ OGHENETEGA  DEM

WHAT IS RETIREMENT?  RETIREMENT is defined by the english dictionary as " The state of being  RETIRED; seclusion. The position of ones life after retiring from one's career.      The state of being "RETIRED",  means double tiredness. School underestimate you by telling you, you are "RETIRED".  You are shut out of the company of the school system. Don't  live ones career, live your own career. Find your passion and purpose and  live it.     I'm not saying,  when to your table is brought someone's idea,  no one should work under them,  because they don't want  to  be retired. Everyone is to be an entrepreneur. An entrepreneur of being your own boss. Helping in someone's idea, does not make you lesser,  instead you are being your own boss too only if its your passion. You become lesser when you do it for pleasure. If you don't belong there,  school system makes you belong,  but mind you, you can't do any better than the ones with