#7 REASONS PEOPLE CAN’T LEAVE AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP. #1. IT’S NORMAL. Most people can't get out of an abusive relationship, because they feel the hostile treatment they get from their partner is normal, most times due to what they may had discovered from parents or several people they've crossed path with are just same. They believe a non abusive partner only exists in NOVELS or MOVIES. They have no slight idea of what a real relationship is like. #2. THEY DO NOT KNOW WHO THEY ARE. Everyone has self worth. Most people who can't leave an abusive relationship do not know who they are. If you know you are a price, you are special, you know shouldn't be taken for granted... You wouldn't tolerate being humiliated and abused in a relationship. He beats you today and he apologizes and does same again and you sit in that relationship and tolerate that, then you don't know you. She humiliates you, forces you into doing things, always feels s