Harvey Vera

#7 REASONS PEOPLE CAN’T LEAVE AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP. #1.  IT’S NORMAL.     Most people can't get out of  an abusive relationship, because they feel the hostile treatment they get from their partner is normal, most times  due to what they may had discovered from parents or several people they've crossed path with are just same.  They believe a non abusive partner only exists in NOVELS or MOVIES. They have no slight idea of what a real relationship is like. #2.    THEY DO NOT KNOW WHO THEY ARE.        Everyone has self worth. Most people who can't leave an abusive relationship do not know who they are. If you know you are a price, you are special, you know shouldn't be taken for granted... You wouldn't tolerate being humiliated and abused in a relationship. He beats you today and he apologizes and does same again and you sit in that relationship and tolerate that, then you don't know you. She humiliates you, forces you into doing things,  always feels s

    Abusive relationships is not one that should be entertained or tolerated,  everyone is  priceless, limiting yourself to several relationships entertaining abuses from this guy and that girl is senseless. A child who grew up in a home where the mother  ir father is a victim of an abusive relationship feels that it’s the best, no other way to be loved and they entertain abusive relationships because they now feel it is normal. Most of these people are not comfortable in non abusive relationship because it seems strange to them and  can't keep up with it.   Not only a relationship you receive constant beatings and insult is abusive, there are other ATTRIBUTES   of abusive relationship we are a novice to and we see it as Normal.   ATTRIBUTES OF AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP * CONTROLLING BEHAVIOR.       DO Not ever engage in a relationship where your partner is excessively controlling,  they expect you to do everything they ask,  they ask,  they don't care about your opinion,