Harvey Vera

Date yourself before you date. Marry yourself before you get married. There's this freedom you have when you are single. Date yourself, love yourself and everything will fall into place. You will never be able to date long or have a sound relationship if you haven't dated yourself.many people would say, " I've been praying for a partner but it seems God just doesn't want to give me a partner" but the question is, how can you manage someone when you've fully not managed yourself, who do you want to suffer? Its just like rushing into marriage when you haven't known your partner much yet. Date yourself, work hard even while studying , give yourself a nice treat, buy clothes for yourself, make your skin glow, and when you get into a relationship you feel very okay, no much complains. You won't complain of a guy not changing your wardrobe, giving you money, because these are the things we learn to do while dating yourself. Marry yours

NONSENSE    People say in every nonsense there is a sense but from my own view,   the more you listen to nonsense,   sit,  dine and talk with people that talk nonsense,  you would only realize one thing,  when you leave their presence,  you copy their nonsense,  you see yourself saying and doing the things they do.  Now,  what is nonsense?  Nonsense  is that that sense  of sitting and doing irrelevant things,  saying things no one can benefit from. Its a sense with no formula of maturity applied. Its that sense of hanging out with those categories of people whom you know will drain you and will never contribute a quota to your  sense of reasoning.  Its that sense of thinking below your normal status. Its a sense that makes you fight and argue unnecessary for something that is no issue. Nonsense is that which u say that makes your friends  laugh with you and the world laugh at you because it makes no sense,  your friends will laugh with you because you are bundle of individuals  who sp

    There's one common attitude I've noticed amongst  most ladies. They call that guy that can't afford to give them the kind of life they want names.  They tag them as "stingy",  "stupid",  "cant spend".  Don't be quick to judge, wait and keep watching.  You might have known a guy for a few months but the truth is you still haven't known him much yet. Most girls throw abusive words at a guy who can't afford the kind of life that's in their dream world.  If yo parents can't afford that kind of  life,  if you can't afford it then why abuse an innocent guy if he can't afford that kind of life in your dream world. Don't  underestimate  a guy if he can't afford that life.  I don't concur  to disguising but that is where most guys derive pleasure. A guy might leave you for another girl after tolerating your insults and you find out he's now wealthy all of a sudden. He didn't become wealthy all of a su

      "LIFE" has no definition, because words can't describe it nor explain it. Mathematicians can't solve it because they don't know the formula. I define "LIFE" as,  what we want it to be. Life is reality. Reality can be define as how we want it to be. Only if we could see our future, we would amend our present and learn from our past.  One of the most popular proverb says,  " you learn from your mistake". I've  come to realize that not everyone learn from their mistake. If you don't decide,  if you don't have a decision board.  You will keep on making same mistakes ad-infinitum. Experiences teach but it doesn't teach all,  It teaches only the mind that has taken a decision. Life is reality ,  you can't dream it nor imagine it,  you live it. You don't live  it the way it present itself before you,  you live it just the way you  want it, f though not fully,  because of life realities. You can't escape life, unless d

      I'll say I accomplished majority of my goals in 2018, I will definitely  continue on the same path throughout 2019. I want to make an impact on the world,  especially changing wrong mindset of youths and teenagers.      These are some of the things I hope to get rolling in 2019. Writing: I was able to publish 2 articles, but in series which extended to 5 articles.  Though I started publishing in December. But I hold to be more consistent in my writing.  I had a goal of publishing two articles weekly and  i couldn't keep up,  so instead of making unrealistic goals,  I'd rather set a goal to publish at least 3 or 4 articles monthly. Speaking:  I used to be shy,  reserve and was so scared of the crowd,  but I broke the burden of public speaking. If anyone had told me last year that I'll give a motivational speech,  I would ask the person to stop such joke.  The moment the opportunity came,  i embraced it,  forgetting my fears. I will really love to do more by

      Poverty is the scarcity or the lack of a certain (variant)  amount of material possessions or money.     Poverty has been  in existence since ages but its more rampant now,  because most people aren't willing to take challenge to get up and get out of bed. No matter how hard we try to help the poor,  most of them still remain poor, not because they enjoy being poor but because they haven't developed the wealthy habit. Everyone wants to live In luxury, no one enjoys being poor,  but the problem is,  they only wish to be and they never decide to be.      " I remember  riding in a top top (Keke)  heading home and there's this man sitting right before me  lip singing  a song. What amused me was how he was seriously rejecting poverty with all his might,  what he didn't realize was  rebuking poverty wouldn't change a thing until he decide to decide. This happen everywhere and everyday.  There are scenarios  where you might have seen group of people who regula

ILLITERACY.     Illiteracy is not a good excuse to make your child autonomous  when he/she cannot differentiate  his right from his wrong.    Ben carson's mother was an illiterate,  she didn't see that as an excuse not to help her children out academically.  Ben Carson was the dullest in his class in his elementary school.  He was dull because he doesn't study to exercise  his brain.  Mind you, no one was born with a certain seed of resilience. God created every one in a unique way,  he isn't  a partial God.  No one  is dull,  one starts getting dull the moment  he stops studying.    Ben carson's mother  went on her knees  prayed to God,  sat her kids down and instructed them; . You must read at least two books per week; her kids were reluctant,  but its something they can't  run away from  because they had been instructed. •'You mustn't  watch TV except two programs,'  she knew TV was a great distraction to kids,  they can spend a whole day sta