Harvey Vera

        Studying at night is of a great importance to our health and emotions. Note, studying not reading,  they are two different words.     Studying means to fix the mind closely  upon a subjects ; to dwell upon anything in thought; to muse ; to ponder. To endeavour  diligently ; to be zealous.     When you return from work take up a book,  story book,  newspaper, magazines.....anything that could literally steal your attention from the present world. Most times its best one exercise the mind or our thoughts from work,  family,   life,  into some other story world even for a few minute, our thought Is worth it. Placing your thinking on the usual or continual thinking or life routine would do you no good. It won't make you beyond your normal thinking, it would only help in decreasing  your ideas. And you think you are successful living an ordinary life.  Don't  live an ordinary life,  live an extraordinary life. How can you do that,  even if you're always busy, studying

      Relationship according to Rev. Respect karo is "Two people running a relay race into a ship".     I have noticed that in so many relationships there is no fun aside having sex. Relationship is not just meant for sex alone but for fun and intimacy. Relationship is a quick access to intimacy.It could be a friendship relationship which consist of : The casual friendship relationship and the intensional friendship relationship which might graduate into courtship relationship  and then to marriage relationship. Relationship helps you to know more about your partner, but most people think relationship is majorly on sex. She satisfies my sexual huge, he satisfies my sexual huge,  am enjoying the relationship. I heard someone say ' the easiest and cheapest way to have free sex is to get into a relationship. They would say "have someone whom you could literally get sex from randomly and wouldn't request for money,  its that cheap".   What a mindset!  They n

      For no cogent reasons you have been jilted by the one who has promised to love you forever. You just realize that the guy that has promised to walk you down the matrimonial aisle has turned to be a player and a heartbreaker. You have been used,shortchanged and dumped by the love of your life.     If i tell you that it doesn't hurt i am lying to you. Consider me a big liar if i tell you you wont be destabilize after this severe heartbreak.    The truth is, it hurts, it drains your strength completely. No word in human speech can possibly describe how pained you will be. But its okay... Its okay to soak you pillow in tears. While its okay to feel pains, its NOT okay to stalk him, it's not okay to monitor his life in the internet, it is NOT okay to fight for a place in his heart, it's NOT okay to keep calling or texting him. Calling for closure won't even help it will only increase the pains. This is the time to close every door connecting to him. _ OGHENETEGA  DEM

WHAT IS RETIREMENT?  RETIREMENT is defined by the english dictionary as " The state of being  RETIRED; seclusion. The position of ones life after retiring from one's career.      The state of being "RETIRED",  means double tiredness. School underestimate you by telling you, you are "RETIRED".  You are shut out of the company of the school system. Don't  live ones career, live your own career. Find your passion and purpose and  live it.     I'm not saying,  when to your table is brought someone's idea,  no one should work under them,  because they don't want  to  be retired. Everyone is to be an entrepreneur. An entrepreneur of being your own boss. Helping in someone's idea, does not make you lesser,  instead you are being your own boss too only if its your passion. You become lesser when you do it for pleasure. If you don't belong there,  school system makes you belong,  but mind you, you can't do any better than the ones with

     School has no practical relevance or material value,  it bakes no bread.  It wont help you acquire fame or wealth according  to philosophy. It  wont make you nicer or a more agreeable  person. It would not endow you with a more desirable  attitude or disposition  of life. School Is not superhuman. School can feel irritating,  It can swear and can feel pain like any other person. It doesn't provide esoteric information on how to manage self or predict the future. It has no cure for fear and loneliness and it does not imminent danger, it has no cure for fear and loneliness and it does not immune man from the vicissitudes and chaos of the present world.     School is important but not necessary. They say school is the key to success but to be real and plain, school is just 10% key to success. Because most times you don't  get a job with your certificate, favoritism is now the order of the day.  You might go to school,  own a  PHD and still be broke.  The success of the most

Date yourself before you date. Marry yourself before you get married. There's this freedom you have when you are single. Date yourself, love yourself and everything will fall into place. You will never be able to date long or have a sound relationship if you haven't dated yourself.many people would say, " I've been praying for a partner but it seems God just doesn't want to give me a partner" but the question is, how can you manage someone when you've fully not managed yourself, who do you want to suffer? Its just like rushing into marriage when you haven't known your partner much yet. Date yourself, work hard even while studying , give yourself a nice treat, buy clothes for yourself, make your skin glow, and when you get into a relationship you feel very okay, no much complains. You won't complain of a guy not changing your wardrobe, giving you money, because these are the things we learn to do while dating yourself. Marry yours

NONSENSE    People say in every nonsense there is a sense but from my own view,   the more you listen to nonsense,   sit,  dine and talk with people that talk nonsense,  you would only realize one thing,  when you leave their presence,  you copy their nonsense,  you see yourself saying and doing the things they do.  Now,  what is nonsense?  Nonsense  is that that sense  of sitting and doing irrelevant things,  saying things no one can benefit from. Its a sense with no formula of maturity applied. Its that sense of hanging out with those categories of people whom you know will drain you and will never contribute a quota to your  sense of reasoning.  Its that sense of thinking below your normal status. Its a sense that makes you fight and argue unnecessary for something that is no issue. Nonsense is that which u say that makes your friends  laugh with you and the world laugh at you because it makes no sense,  your friends will laugh with you because you are bundle of individuals  who sp